Even if you’re not ready, make the first night go right.
Hello !
Many of you were explaining me they NEEDED to become able to last longer within a SHORT period of time.
Indeed, it happens often that you do not really care about your sexual performance.
Probably because at these times you don’t have sex!
And then there comes an opportunity for you to have sex, with a woman you truly like. You really want to please her, and not disappoint her!
But you realize you have not much time before you are going to find yourself in a bed with her!
It makes you even more nervous, and when the night comes… it is not good for any of you.
This is the kind of failures you can remember for the rest of your life.
In this post, I’ll teach you a quick fix that you can use if you are really in a hurry to limit the problems of not lasting long in bed.
But remember this is a quick fix, not a solution, so it won’t work in all the situations, and it won’t transform you, it will just help yourself to increase your chances of satisfying a woman for the next times you make love. I strongly advise you to read our manual in order to improve MUCH MORE and FOREVER your sex life.
The main reason why premature ejaculation occurs is because of a critical rise of the excitement of the man. It happens when the penis enters the vagina. A sexual tension has been built before and during the preliminaries. It is added to the feelings upon the nerves of the penis. Other emotional factors such as stress alter the whole thing (sometimes you feel so nervous you can not ejaculate even if you are very excited). The combination of all these gives a rise that is often too important if you are not in control of yourself, and there comes too soon the ejaculation.
When you have premature ejaculation, it is impossible to change yourself in a day, so you have to try to control the other factors that contribute to the rise of excitement.
First, you need to prevent stress and fear.
It’s very important not to feel pressurised into having sex when you don’t really want to. Just because your friends say they are ‘doing it’ doesn’t mean they are. If possible, have a candid talk with the woman about your performance anxiety. Do not abuse of alcohol, it won’t relax you, it will diminish your control over your body, and thus your ejaculation.
Then you need to get less pressure over the nerves of your penis. Do you know what happens when you make love?
For the girl, the vagina, the sexual opening between the legs begins to moisten. If the girl is not sexually excited enough, then her vagina will not be lubricated and moist enough, and it will be difficult for your penis to enter the girl’s vagina. Worse than that, if your penis is too tightened inside the girl’s vagina, the rise of your excitement will increase much faster than if it is lubricated enough. You really want to avoid that. Did you ever enter your penis into a woman’s vagina and already felt you were going to ejaculate after a few strokes? This can be avoided if you can make the vagina well lubricated, and for that you need to level up your partner’s excitement.
There are several key points to build up a woman’s sexual arousement: